Thinking about ontology

There's a tree outside of my bedroom window in my new Harlem apartment. I'm not quite sure what type of tree it is. Its leaves will change colors come fall (sometime soon, fingers crossed). I counted eighteen leaves on one offshoot; there are several offshoots on one branch. The leaves are a middling green, perhaps… Continue reading Thinking about ontology

Dear Matt,

This past Wednesday, October 12th marked eighteen years since your (Matthew Shepard's) death. If you were alive today, you'd be 39 years old (nearly 40)—an eternity in "gay-years"! Just kidding, I don't really believe in that. But, maybe you would have, and hopefully you would have had someone, say a friend or a husband/boyfriend/partner, to… Continue reading Dear Matt,

A Coming Out Story

Happy National Coming Out Day y'all! So, coming out is a long and lengthy process for a lot of LGBT individuals. It's not always like there's one, singular, grand moment where you magnificently walk outside your closet door and you officially declare, "I'm Out™." You have different social circles such as your friends, family, and… Continue reading A Coming Out Story